Before you pack your bags for Hawai’i, I challenge you to take a moment and dive into its rich history. Understanding how this independent kingdom became America’s 50th state isn’t just polite; it offers crucial context for your visit. It helps you appreciate the true spirit of the islands and why tourism here is so often a complex topic.
A Different Kind of Tourism: Beyond the Resort Bubble
You’ve probably heard stories about tourists rubbing locals the wrong way in Hawai’i. And honestly, those stories aren’t always fiction. People who call Hawai’i home, especially those indigenous to the islands, are understandably protective. Their land often grapples with a tourism industry that, while bringing money, can feel parasitic, taking more than it gives back to the community and the environment.
This understanding made me hesitant to visit for a long time, even as my work took me to various corners of the globe. Destinations like Hawai’i, Jamaica, or Puerto Rico demand a thoughtful approach. You don’t want to end up at an all-inclusive resort where every dollar you spend funnels into the pockets of faraway hospitality executives.
For Hawai’i, I wanted an experience that encouraged genuine exploration, celebrated local food and artists, and offered easy ways to contribute positively to the community. I was looking for a place that pointed outwards, not inwards.
Finding Romer House: A Home Away From Home
My search led me to Romer House, a charming boutique hotel in Waikīkī, where I stayed last September. It’s nestled quietly across from a lively multi-block mall and a Kona Coffee shop notorious for its 45-minute lines. Despite its central location, it felt serene compared to the louder resorts closer to the beach, which were just a couple of main roads away.
Stepping into the Romer House lobby felt like a breath of fresh air. It was dimly lit, had a relaxed seating area, and a small restaurant serving up comforting breakfast staples and a more elaborate dinner menu. Behind the check-in desk, a huge framed photo of local surf legend Clyde Aikau seemed to welcome everyone. Meeting any member of the Aikau family, even in a photograph, when visiting Hawai’i is a significant connection, and it truly set the tone.
Instead of single-use plastic, each guest received Jason Momoa’s Mananalu aluminum water bottles, with refill stations conveniently located throughout the hotel. This simple touch showed a real commitment to reducing waste. While there’s a pleasant pool and poolside bar, it’s not the kind of place where you’d feel compelled to spend all day lounging. The room itself was cozy, well air-conditioned, and had all the standard amenities, but it wasn’t flashy – and that’s precisely its charm.
An Invitation to Explore, Not Just Stay
Romer House constantly encouraged us to venture out beyond the hotel walls. Guest services advised waking up early, around 5:30-6 AM during my visit, to catch the stunning sunrise over the beach. And let me tell you, it was absolutely worth it.
Every employee was eager to share an extensive list of local spots to explore, almost exclusively small businesses. From Avanti, known for its superb traditional aloha shirts, to Honolulu Pawnshop, a cool local streetwear brand with a store in a nearby Waikīkī mall, they highlighted genuine island businesses. A highlight of my trip was hiking Diamondhead, a local mountain and state park that offered a fantastic workout and truly spectacular views from the top. Staying at Romer House felt like being part of a local neighborhood, a rare find in such a tourist-heavy area.
Community at the Core
Even the hotel’s on-site offerings were deeply connected to the community. The Lei Stand, the hotel bar, is a revival of a historic bar that was once a central gathering place in the island’s Chinatown. Now, it happily serves both locals and guests. Unlike other resorts that host big-name brands like Tommy Bahama (headquartered in Seattle and owned by Oxford Industries), Romer House championed local talent.
During my stay, a local swimwear brand hosted a pop-up in the lobby, and a local jeweler set up shop daily. This difference is stark: other resorts often focus solely on what’s within their walls. Romer House, on the other hand, consistently directs guests outwards, encouraging engagement with the broader community.
Navigating Ethical Tourism: A Personal Journey
I certainly don’t consider myself an expert on the ethics of tourism in places like Hawai’i. After a century of significant changes, finding a “right” way to visit can feel elusive. However, I’ve learned that if you choose to visit, ensuring your money circulates within the island’s economy and that you contribute positively to it is crucial. This means actively listening to locals.
For example, taking anything from the beach, even sand or rocks, is illegal. Always pick up trash if you see it. Support local coffee shops instead of international chains. And please, don’t press locals for their secret spots; those are for them, not for tourists seeking an “authentic” experience. Lastly, don’t miss the chance to experience one of the island’s most unifying traditions for both visitors and residents: waking up for the sunrise.
FAQs About Responsible Travel in Hawai’i
What is the most important thing to know before traveling to Hawai’i?
Learning about Hawai’i’s history as an independent kingdom and its path to becoming a U.S. state is incredibly important. This historical context helps you better understand the culture, the people, and the complexities of tourism on the islands.
Why is it crucial to support local businesses in Hawai’i?
Supporting local businesses ensures that your tourism dollars stay within the Hawaiian economy, directly benefiting residents and communities. It helps prevent profits from being funneled to large corporations headquartered elsewhere, fostering a more sustainable tourism model.
What are some simple ways to be a respectful tourist in Hawai’i?
Simple acts like not removing sand or rocks from beaches (it’s illegal!), picking up litter, choosing local coffee shops over chains, and respecting private local spaces contribute significantly to responsible tourism. Engaging with the landscape with respect is key.
Should I stay at an all-inclusive resort in Hawai’i?
While convenient, many all-inclusive resorts can limit your interaction with local communities and businesses. Consider accommodations like boutique hotels that encourage exploration and engagement with local culture, ensuring your spending directly benefits the islands.
How can I find accommodations that align with responsible tourism in Hawai’i?
Look for hotels that highlight local artisans, promote island exploration, have strong sustainability practices (like reducing plastic waste), and offer connections to local businesses and history. Check their transparency about community involvement.
Is it okay to ask locals for recommendations on less-known spots?
It’s generally best to avoid prying for “secret” local spots. These places are often cherished by residents for their quiet and authenticity, and an influx of tourists can easily disrupt them. Stick to widely recommended and publicly accessible locations.
What impact does plastic waste have in Hawai’i, and how can I help?
Plastic waste is a significant environmental threat to Hawai’i’s delicate ecosystems, particularly its marine life. You can help by bringing reusable water bottles and bags, choosing products with minimal packaging, and participating in beach cleanups if the opportunity arises.
Your Call to Action: Be a Mindful Traveler
Let your next trip to Hawai’i be more than just a vacation. Make it a meaningful journey that respects the land, honors its history, and uplifts its people. Choose thoughtfully where you stay, where you eat, and how you spend your time and money. Engage with local businesses, listen to local voices, and leave no trace but your appreciation. By doing so, you contribute to a future where Hawai’i’s beauty and culture can thrive, not just for visitors, but for generations of islanders. This isn’t just about being a tourist; it’s about being a guest with aloha.
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