Hawaii sets the stage for intensely romantic date nights, blending exquisite dining with breathtaking views. This article unveils some of the most unforgettable restaurants across the islands, perfect for creating lasting memories.
Sunset Cocktails and Ocean Breezes: Merriman’s Kapalua (Maui)
Merriman’s Kapalua isn’t just a restaurant; it’s an experience. Picture this: you’re sipping a handcrafted Mai Tai, the setting sun painting the sky in vibrant hues of orange and pink, the gentle ocean breeze whispering sweet nothings. Perched atop Kapalua Bay, this location offers unparalleled panoramic vistas. The price point is definitely on the higher end (expect to spend upwards of $150-$200 per person, excluding drinks), but the ambiance and the quality of the food make it worth the splurge, especially for a special occasion. They pride themselves on using locally sourced ingredients, emphasizing farm-to-table freshness. For a truly romantic touch, request a table on the lanai (patio) when you make your reservation. Dinner reservations are highly recommended, especially during peak season. You can find them at 1 Bay Club Pl, Lahaina, HI 96761.
Getting There: If you are staying in West Maui (e.g., Kaanapali, Lahaina), Merriman’s is easily accessible by car or taxi/rideshare. Parking is available, but it can get crowded, so consider arriving a bit early to secure a spot. If you’re coming from other parts of Maui, factor in driving time – the drive from South Maui (e.g., Wailea) can take approximately 45 minutes to an hour, depending on traffic. Remember to check traffic conditions before you head out!
Pro-Tip: Consider arriving an hour before sunset to grab a drink at the bar and soak in the pre-dinner atmosphere. They often feature live music in the early evening, adding to the romantic ambiance. Check their website for the schedule.
Fine Dining with a Volcanic View: The Rim at Volcano House (Big Island)
For a date night that’s truly unique, The Rim at Volcano House on the Big Island offers stunning views of Kilauea volcano. Imagine indulging in a delicious meal while gazing at the otherworldly glow emanating from the Halemaʻumaʻu crater. The Rim combines Hawaiian regional cuisine with a sophisticated touch, and while eruptions are constantly monitored by the US Geological Survey (USGS), you are at a safe distance. What will really knock your socks off is the spectacular view of an active volcano. The restaurant tends to be more formal, and smart casual attire is appropriate. Expect to spend around $75-$125 per person. I visited during a slightly foggy night, but even then, the red glow of an active volcano was unmissable. This is definitely conversation starter! Volcano House is located within the Hawaii Volcanoes National Park, so you’ll need to pay the park entrance fee ($30 per vehicle, valid for 7 days). The park is open 24 hours, but The Rim restaurant has specific operating hours, so be sure to check their website or call for reservations.
Getting There: From Hilo, take Highway 11 southwest for approximately 30 miles. The drive takes about 45 minutes to an hour. From Kona, take Highway 11 east for approximately 96 miles; this will take around 2.5 to 3 hours. Keep in mind that the weather in Volcanoes National Park can be unpredictable – it can be cool and rainy, even if it’s sunny on the coast – so bring a light jacket. The altitude is around 4,000 feet.
Local Secret: If you are visiting the Volcanoes National Park, consider pairing dinner with an evening hike to a nearby overlook to get a closer view of the volcano’s crater. However, be sure to check the park’s website for trail closures and safety information before heading out.
Oceanfront Romance in Waikiki: Hau Tree Lanai (Oahu)
Located right on the sands of Waikiki Beach, Hau Tree Lanai is a picturesque spot for a romantic dinner. This restaurant is particularly known for its namesake hau tree that provides shade and a charming backdrop. The setting is more casual but still incredibly romantic, especially at sunset. Price per person ranges $50-$90, making it a more accessible option than some of the upscale resorts. The menu features a mix of classic Hawaiian dishes and international cuisine. Sitting directly on the beach, getting your toes in the sand is part of the experience when you decide to grab a table here. The restaurant is located inside the New Otani Kaimana Beach Hotel. While they have a parking garage, it can fill up quickly, especially during peak hours, so consider taking a taxi or rideshare if possible.
Directions & Location: Hau Tree Lanai is located at 2863 Kalakaua Ave, Honolulu, HI 96815. It’s easily reachable from most hotels on Waikiki. Either walk along the beach toward Diamond Head side, or you can drive and attempt for parking.
Local’s Take: This restaurant is popular with locals and tourists alike. They offer breakfast, lunch, and dinner, but dinner is undeniably the most romantic time to visit. Try to reserve a table closest to the ocean for the best experience.
Seafood and Sunsets in Poipu: Beach House Restaurant (Kauai)
For a postcard-perfect Kauai date night, look no further than the Beach House Restaurant in Poipu. This oceanfront restaurant offers stunning sunset views, and the food is equally impressive. The menu specializes in fresh seafood and local ingredients, and everything from Mahi Mahi to Ahi is prepared beautifully. The views from the Beach House are so spectacular that people often gather on the lawn in front of the restaurant to watch the sunset, even if they aren’t dining there. Be prepared for crowds, especially around sunset, therefore, booking your reservation is a must. The price range is similar to Merriman’s, around $150 – $200 per person. You can found them at 5022 Lawai Rd, Koloa, HI 96756. Definitely a spot to consider during your Hawaiian vacation!
Insider Tip: They have a very comprehensive cocktail list. Don’t hesitate to ask your server for a recommendation. They’re usually very knowledgeable about the different drinks and can suggest something that pairs well with your meal.
Driving Directions: From Lihue Airport, take Highway 50 west towards Koloa/Poipu. Turn left onto Maluhia Road, then turn right onto Poipu Road. Turn left onto Lawai Road, and the Beach House Restaurant will be on your right. The drive takes about 25-30 minutes, depending on traffic.
Island Elegance at Hoku’s (Oahu)
Hoku’s, located at The Kahala Hotel & Resort in Honolulu, is synonymous with fine dining and island elegance. The ambiance is sophisticated yet relaxed, with panoramic ocean views. Hoku’s features a menu that creatively blends local Hawaiian flavors with international culinary techniques. The Sunday Brunch at Hoku’s is legendary, but dinner is where the romantic magic truly happens. Dress code is smart casual. Expect to spend around $150- $250 per person. The restaurant is located at 5000 Kahala Ave, Honolulu, HI 96816.
Logistics: Directions and Parking: The Kahala Hotel & Resort is located in a more secluded area of Honolulu, away from the hustle and bustle of Waikiki. From Waikiki, take Kalakaua Avenue east, which turns into Kahala Avenue. Follow Kahala Avenue to the Kahala Hotel & Resort. Valet parking is available at the hotel. Self-parking is also available, but it can be limited. Expect to pay for parking unless you are a hotel guest.
Experience: Request a window table when you book to ensure you have an unobstructed view of the ocean. The service is impeccable. The servers are attentive but not intrusive, and they are happy to answer any questions you may have about the menu.
Casual Romance with a View: Duke’s Waikiki (Oahu)
Duke’s Waikiki is a popular and lively restaurant located right on Waikiki Beach. It offers stunning ocean views and a casual, fun atmosphere. Named after legendary surfer Duke Kahanamoku, Duke’s is a Waikiki institution. The menu features a mix of Hawaiian and American cuisine, with a focus on fresh seafood and grilled dishes. While not as upscale as some of the other restaurants on this list, Duke’s offers a relaxed and romantic vibe, especially at sunset. Expect to spend around $40-$75 per person. It is located at 2335 Kalakaua Ave #116, Honolulu, HI 96815, inside the Outrigger Waikiki Beach Resort.
Tips and Recommendations: Duke’s is extremely popular, so expect a wait, especially during peak hours. They don’t take reservations for dinner, but you can put your name on the list and grab a drink at the bar while you wait. The Hula Pie is a must-try dessert. If you and your date loves cocktails, a Lava Flow is another popular choice!
Sunset Mai Tais at House Without a Key (Oahu)
This iconic spot at the Halekulani Hotel offers a classic Hawaiian experience: stunning sunset views, live Hawaiian music and hula dancing, and delicious cocktails. House Without a Key is all about ambiance. It’s the perfect place to relax and enjoy the beauty of Waikiki with your date. The food menu features light bites and appetizers, but the main draw is the cocktails and the atmosphere. The cost is quite reasonable here, depending on the drinks you order; food per person can be around $30-$60. Located at 2199 Kalia Rd, Honolulu, HI 96815. Prepare to be captivated by the ocean view.
Halekulani Hotel (Oahu – Waikiki)
Maximizing the Experience: Arrive early to snag a good seat, especially if you want to be close to the stage. The hula dancers perform nightly, and it’s a truly mesmerizing experience. This is great as a pre-dinner drinks before hopping over to another dinner spot. Be prepared to be patient getting in because the wait could easily be 1 hour. Check out the nightly schedule before planning to visit!
Intimate Italian Dining: Arancino di Mare (Oahu)
For a change of pace from Hawaiian cuisine, Arancino di Mare in Waikiki offers authentic Italian dining with a romantic, intimate atmosphere. It still faces beautiful Waikiki beach and offers an affordable and delicious menu. The restaurant is known for its Neapolitan-style pizzas, homemade pasta, and fresh seafood dishes. The lighting is dim, the ambiance is cozy, and the food is simply divine. Expect to spend around $50-$80 per person. The address is 255 Beach Walk, Honolulu, HI 96815, located in the Beachwalk area of Waikiki.
More Tips: Consider sharing a pizza and a pasta dish to experience a variety of flavors. They have an extensive wine list, too. Arancino has other storefronts as well, and while most offer good food, the location being at Beach Walk offers prime seating.
Elevated Cuisine at Orchids (Oahu)
Located at the Halekulani Hotel, Orchids boasts breathtaking ocean views. The service and food is impeccable, and is usually known for its brunch. The ambiance inside is light, and the air conditioning makes the dining experience comfortable. This restaurant has high standards, but offers great views.
Directions: Orchids is located at 2199 Kalia Rd. Make your way towards Halekulani Hotel and valet parking is available. The price per person for the romantic scenery is between $80-$120.
The Timeless Haliewa Beach House(Oahu)
Haliewa Beach House allows an unforgettable island view for a date night. There, you can engage in beautiful scenic views, especially during sunset. It’s truly a sight for all visitors. Here, you’ll be able have delicious food, cocktails, and ocean views.
Important Details: The address for Haliewa Beach House is 66-251 Kamehameha Hwy. Dinner here is generally between $50-$90 per person.
Chef Chai (Oahu)
For a more modern and innovative dining experience, Chef Chai is a great choice. This Honolulu restaurant features Pacific Rim cuisine with a focus on Asian-inspired flavors. The ambiance is stylish and contemporary, making it a great spot for a date night. The dishes are beautifully presented, and the service is impeccable. Reservations recommended.
Dining Info: Located at 1009 Kapiolani Blvd, Honolulu. Price point here tends to be high, generally between $75-$125.
Mama’s Fish House (Maui)
While Mama’s Fish House is known primarily as a lunch venue, it’s an amazing experience. Their food is delicious, and the view is also great there. It may be pricy, but you can’t put a price on the experience and the view!
Location Info: Mama’s Fish House is located at 799 Poho Pl, Paia, HI 96779. Since it is a long drive away, consider accounting for that in your itinerary.
Romantic Dining Experiences: Beyond Restaurants
Sometimes, the most unforgettable date nights aren’t about a fancy restaurant, but about creating a unique and personalized experience. Here are alternative date ideas to consider:
- Picnic at Sunset: Pack a gourmet picnic basket with local cheeses, fruits, and wines, and find a secluded spot on the beach or a scenic overlook to watch the sunset.
- Private Chef Experience: Hire a private chef to cook a romantic dinner in your vacation rental or hotel suite. This allows you to customize the menu and enjoy a more intimate setting.
- Stargazing Tour: The Hawaiian Islands offer incredible stargazing opportunities. Join a guided tour to learn about the constellations and planets, and enjoy the beauty of the night sky with your loved one. The high altitude and minimal light pollution makes stargazing extra special here.
Planning Your Romantic Hawaiian Getaway: Tips and Considerations
A successful romantic date night requires careful planning and attention to detail:
- Reservations are Essential: Especially during peak season, popular restaurants book up weeks or even months in advance. Make reservations as soon as possible to avoid disappointment.
- Consider the Timing: Sunset is the most romantic time to dine, so try to book your reservations accordingly. However, keep in mind that sunset times vary depending on the time of year.
- Dress Code: While Hawaii is generally a casual destination, some restaurants have dress codes. Check the restaurant’s website or call to inquire about the dress code before you go.
- Transportation: Consider how you will get to and from the restaurant. If you plan to drink alcohol, it’s best to take a taxi or rideshare. Parking can be limited at some restaurants.
- Budget Accordingly: Dining in Hawaii can be expensive. Set a budget for your date night and choose a restaurant that fits your price range. Remember to factor in the cost of drinks, appetizers, and desserts. Add tips, and you are all set!
Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ)
What is the average cost of a romantic dinner in Hawaii?
The average cost can range significantly depending on the restaurant’s level of luxury. You can expect to pay anywhere from $50 to $250+ per person. Remember to factor in drinks, appetizers, desserts, and gratuity.
What should I wear on a date night in Hawaii?
It depends on the restaurant. Some upscale restaurants have a dress code of smart casual (e.g., collared shirts and dress pants for men, dresses or skirts for women). Most casual restaurants allow for more relaxed attire (e.g., shorts and a t-shirt). Always check the restaurant’s website or call to confirm the dress code.
How far in advance should I make reservations?
It’s best to make reservations as far in advance as possible, especially if you are traveling during peak season or want to dine at a popular restaurant. Some restaurants book up weeks or even months in advance. A good rule of thumb is to make reservations at least 2-4 weeks in advance.
Are there any vegetarian or vegan options available at these restaurants?
Most restaurants in Hawaii offer vegetarian options, and some offer vegan options as well. It’s always best to check the restaurant’s menu online or call to inquire about vegetarian and vegan options before you go. Be sure to tell your server about your dietary restrictions when you order.
What if it rains during our date night?
Rain is always a possibility in Hawaii, but don’t let it ruin your date night. Many restaurants have covered patios or indoor seating with ocean views. If it rains, simply embrace the moment and enjoy the cozy atmosphere. For example, if you are at Waikiki, you can easily walk to another restaurant!
References
US Geological Survey (USGS) – Volcano Hazards Program
Ready to ignite the romance?
Don’t let another moment pass without planning your unforgettable Hawaiian date night. Browse through these recommendations, make that reservation, and prepare for an evening of stunning views, delicious food, and cherished memories. Make your Hawaiian journey more than just a vacation, but a spark of love!
