Hawaii’s breathtaking landscapes and vibrant culture offer a unique travel experience, but understanding local customs is key to avoiding cultural misunderstandings and showing respect. This guide highlights common cultural sensitivities and provides practical tips for navigating Hawaiian sites with awareness and appreciation. Immerse yourself respectfully, and your trip will be much more rewarding for you and the local community.
Sacred Sites and Heiau Etiquette
Heiau are ancient Hawaiian temples, considered sacred spaces. Treat these areas with the utmost respect. Never walk or climb on the walls or structures, and avoid loud noises or disruptive behavior. Many heiau have specific rules, so look for posted signs and adhere to them. If unsure, err on the side of caution and maintain a respectful distance. For example, Pu’uhonua o Honaunau National Historical Park on the Big Island is a restored heiau; ranger-led tours provide significant cultural insights. Remember, these are not just historical sites, but actively spiritual places.
Driving Directions to Pu’uhonua o Honaunau National Historical Park: From Kona, drive south on Highway 11 to Captain Cook. Turn right onto Highway 160 and follow it to the park entrance. The drive takes about 45 minutes.
Cost: $20 per vehicle; $15 per motorcycle; $10 per individual.
Recommendation: Look out for “Kumu hula” groups teaching their students within the park, demonstrating the true meaning of the space.
The Significance of Land (‘Āina)
The land, or ‘āina, is deeply revered in Hawaiian culture. It sustains life and is considered a sacred entity. Always ask for permission before entering private property, even if it appears unoccupied. When hiking, stick to marked trails to minimize your impact on the environment and avoid disturbing fragile ecosystems. Pack out everything you pack in, and leave no trace of your visit. For example, when visiting Waimea Canyon on Kauai, stick to established viewpoints and hiking trails. Don’t carve your name into trees or rocks, and be mindful of local flora and fauna.
Driving Directions to Waimea Canyon State Park: From Lihue, take Highway 50 west. Follow the highway to Waimea town, then turn onto Waimea Canyon Drive (Highway 550). Follow this road to the canyon viewpoints. The drive takes about an hour from Lihue.
Cost: There is no entry fee for Waimea Canyon State Park itself, but there may be fees for specific attractions or parking areas within the park.
Recommendation: Head to Kalalau Lookout at the end of Waimea Canyon Drive for what many reviews claim to be the best view.
Ocean Etiquette and Respect for Marine Life
The ocean is an integral part of Hawaiian life and culture. Show respect when swimming, surfing, or engaging in other water activities. Be aware of currents and tides, and heed warnings from lifeguards. Avoid disturbing marine life, including turtles (honu), monk seals (ʻilio-holo-i-ka-uaua), and coral reefs. Keep a safe distance from these animals, and never touch or feed them. When snorkeling or diving, use reef-safe sunscreen to protect the delicate coral ecosystems. For example, at Molokini Crater off Maui, it is crucial to avoid touching the coral, as even a light touch can damage or kill it. Check the Hawaii Division of Aquatic Resources for allowed sunscreens.
Directions to Molokini Crater: Molokini Crater is only accessible by boat. Several tour operators depart from Maalaea Harbor and Kihei Boat Ramp on Maui.
Cost: Snorkeling tours to Molokini Crater typically cost between $150 and $250 per person, depending on the tour operator and inclusions.
Recommendation: Book your Molokini snorkeling tour in advance, especially during peak season, to secure your spot.
Lei Giving and Receiving
Leis are symbols of affection and welcome in Hawaii. When giving a lei, present it with a smile and a gentle bow. When receiving a lei, accept it graciously and wear it with pride. Avoid removing the lei in front of the person who gave it to you, as this can be seen as disrespectful. Tradition dictates that a lei shouldn’t be refused. Most commonly during a departure or on a special occasion, you can reciprocate the gesture by giving a hug or a kiss on the cheek of the lei giver. If you wish to dispose of the lei later, do so respectfully. Traditionally, it’s best to return it to the earth – perhaps by hanging it on a tree or placing it on a grave. Avoid discarding it in the trash unless absolutely necessary. Giving leis on arrival and especially during graduations is commonplace and very welcomed.
Lei Stands on Oahu: Many lei stands are near the Honolulu Airport at various flower shops. You can also order pre-made leis at most of the ABC stores.
Cost: Leis range in price from $10 to $50, depending on the type of flowers used and the complexity of the lei.
Recommendation: If you are greeting someone at the airport, ordering in advance from a local florist guarantees a high-quality lei made with fresh flowers.
Respecting Elders (Kūpuna)
Respect for elders, or kūpuna, is a cornerstone of Hawaiian culture. Show deference to elders by offering them your seat, assisting them when needed, and listening attentively to their stories and wisdom. Address them respectfully as “Auntie” or “Uncle,” even if you are not related. For example, if you encounter an elderly Hawaiian at a cultural event, take the time to listen to their stories and learn from their experiences. You could be blessed with wisdom and a history lesson.
Places you will find Kupuna: Anywhere in the community and especially in the front row during cultural events such as hula performance or a Hawaiian music concert.
Cost: Nothing required. Your respect is always welcomed.
Recommendation: Be patient in line with elders, as they may take longer. Show them courtesy and kindness during transactions or at a local store.
Understanding Aloha
Aloha is more than just a greeting; it’s a way of life. It embodies love, compassion, and respect for oneself, others, and the environment. Practice aloha by being kind, patient, and considerate. Share your aloha spirit with everyone you meet. Extend the spirit of Aloha in every interaction you have with locals on the island. It’s amazing how far a simple word of encouragement or a smile can go on the Hawaiian Islands.
Photography Etiquette
While capturing memories is natural, be mindful of when and where you take photos. Avoid photographing people without their permission, especially in sacred or cultural settings. Ask for permission before photographing hula dancers during a performance, and respect any restrictions on photography at cultural sites. For example, when visiting Iolani Palace in Honolulu, be mindful of any restrictions on photography inside the palace.
Iolani Palace Photography Rules: Avoid using flash photography since it is harmful to valuable artifacts within. Ask a docent if you may take a photo of them before proceeding. In general, they will welcome it!
Cost: Tours cost between $27-$75, but will offer photo opportunities in the grounds.
Recommendation: Avoid blocking the view of other visitors. Be considerate of those awaiting their turn to take photos.
Language Matters
Learning a few basic Hawaiian phrases can go a long way in showing respect for the culture. Use greetings like “Aloha” (hello/goodbye) and “Mahalo” (thank you). Practice proper pronunciation; mispronouncing Hawaiian words can be disrespectful. Most folks will be kind and happy to hear you trying to speak the native language. Common phrases like “E komo mai” (welcome) and “A hui hou” (until we meet again) can enhance your interactions with locals. When in doubt, don’t be afraid to ask for clarification, and always do so respectfully.
Basic Hawaiian Phrases:
Aloha: Hello, goodbye, love
Mahalo: Thank you
ʻAe: Yes
ʻAʻole: No
E komo mai: Welcome
How are you: Pehea ‘oe?
Fine: Maika’i
My name is: O….ko’u inoa
What is your name?: O wai kou inoa?
A hui hou: Until we meet again
Respecting Private Property
Hawaii has a unique blend of public and private spaces. Always respect private property boundaries. Avoid trespassing or entering areas marked as private. Many beaches in Hawaii are accessible to the public, but access pathways may cross private land. Respect these pathways and avoid lingering or disturbing residents. Be mindful of “Kapu” signs, which indicate areas that are restricted or forbidden. These areas are often sacred or culturally significant, and entry is strictly prohibited. For example, you will often see “No Trespassing signs” on private land.
Attending a Lūʻau
Attending a lūʻau is a popular way to experience Hawaiian culture, but it’s important to do so respectfully. Recognize that a lūʻau is more than just a party; it’s a celebration of Hawaiian heritage. Dress modestly and avoid loud or disruptive behavior. Participate in cultural activities with respect and enthusiasm. Sample the traditional foods, such as kalua pig and poi, and be open to trying new flavors. Listen attentively to the stories and performances, and appreciate the rich history and traditions being shared. For example, Paradise Cove Lūʻau is a popular destination.
Directions to Paradise Cove Lūʻau: From Waikiki, take the H-1 freeway west to Ko Olina. Follow the signs to Paradise Cove. The drive takes about 45 minutes.
Cost: lūʻau tickets range from $150 to $250 per person, depending on the package.
Recommendation: Always arrive early to participate in the crafts and demonstrations before the main show. Learn about traditional Hawaiian crafts like lei making and taro pounding.
The Significance of Tattoos
In Hawaiian culture, tattoos, or kakau, hold significant cultural and spiritual meaning. They often represent lineage, achievements, and personal identity. Avoid touching or commenting on someone’s tattoos without their permission. If you are interested in getting a Hawaiian tattoo, research the traditional designs and their meanings. Consult with a reputable tattoo artist who understands the cultural significance of kakau. It’s crucial to approach this practice with respect and understanding, rather than as a mere souvenir. Understand that tattoos represent family values (Ohana), beliefs, or even historical points.
Supporting Local Businesses
One of the best ways to show respect for Hawaiian culture is to support local businesses. Shop at local markets, eat at family-owned restaurants, and purchase souvenirs from local artisans. This helps to sustain the local economy and preserves traditional crafts and practices. Avoid buying mass-produced souvenirs that are not made in Hawaii. By supporting local businesses, you are contributing to the well-being of the community and helping to preserve its unique cultural heritage. For example, supporting local farmers by regularly visiting farmer markets on Saturday mornings.
KCC Farmer’s Market Directions: The KCC Farmer’s Market is located at Kapiolani Community College (KCC) in Honolulu.
Cost: Free
Recommendation: Arrive as early as possible for the best selections and parking, as crowds tend to get very crowded by mid-morning.
Understanding the Concept of Ohana (Family)
Ohana, or family, is a central value in Hawaiian culture. It encompasses not only blood relatives but also close friends and community members. Treat everyone you meet with the warmth and respect you would show to a family member. Be mindful of the importance of family gatherings and events, and avoid disrupting or intruding on these occasions. If you are invited to someone’s home, bring a small gift as a token of appreciation. Show your commitment and respect for Ohana by being understanding to those on island who are struggling to make ends meet.
By following these guidelines, you can ensure that your trip to Hawaii is respectful, enriching, and unforgettable. Remember, you are a guest in someone else’s home, and your actions should reflect that. Embrace the spirit of aloha and immerse yourself in the beauty and culture of Hawaii with humility and appreciation.
FAQ Section
What should I do if I accidentally offend someone?
If you realize you have accidentally offended someone, apologize sincerely and immediately. Acknowledge your mistake and explain that you did not intend to cause offense. Let them know that it was unintentional and you didn’t mean any malice.
Is it okay to wear swimwear outside of the beach or pool?
It’s generally not considered appropriate to wear swimwear outside of beach or pool areas. Cover up with a sarong, t-shirt, or shorts when visiting shops, restaurants, or other public places. Be respectful when you’re outside of the beach.
What should I do if I see someone disrespecting Hawaiian culture?
If you witness someone disrespecting Hawaiian culture, consider politely educating them about the proper etiquette. Explain why their actions are inappropriate and offer suggestions for how they can show more respect. If you are not comfortable speaking directly to the person, you can inform a park ranger or other authority figure.
Is it okay to take sand or rocks from the beach as a souvenir?
Taking sand, rocks, or shells from Hawaiian beaches is generally discouraged and, in some cases, against the law. These natural elements play an important role in the ecosystem and should be left undisturbed. Some believe that taking lava rocks will bring you bad luck. Just leave nature’s little treasures for everyone to enjoy.
How can I learn more about Hawaiian culture?
There are many ways to deepen your understanding of Hawaiian culture. Visit cultural centers, museums, and historical sites. Attend local events, such as hula performances and festivals. Read books and articles about Hawaiian history, language, and traditions. Engage in conversations with local residents and listen to their stories and experiences.
References
- Pu’uhonua o Honaunau National Historical Park Website
- Waimea Canyon State Park Website
- Hawaii Division of Aquatic Resources
- Iolani Palace Official Website
- Paradise Cove Lūʻau
- KCC Farmer’s Market Website
Ready to experience the magic of Hawaii while honoring its rich culture? Plan your trip today, keeping these tips in mind, and leave a positive impact on this special place. Book your flights, research authentic experiences, and prepare to be welcomed by the spirit of Aloha. Your journey of discovery awaits!
