Ho’oponopono: Restoring Relationships Through Hawaiian Forgiveness Practices
In a small Hawaiian village, a cousin stole a dollar from an aunt to buy candy. Punishment was not the first response. The family gathered, guided by a kahu (shepherd), and spent as long as it took to work through the layers of the conflict — confession, forgiveness, and a shared meal that signified restored unity. That story, recounted by the late Hawaiian poet and activist Puanani Burgess, illustrates the traditional practice of hoʻoponopono (“to make right”). Hoʻoponopono means “to make right” and was traditionally led by a kahuna lapaʻau (healing priest) to resolve family conflicts believed to cause